1. Be supportive- visit or call to say, “I care and want to help.”
2. Treat the bereaved couple equally. Men need as much support as women.
3. Be available. Parents need direct help providing a meal, doing errands, and baby-sitting if they have other children at home.
4. Allow parents to talk about their loss; ask but don’t pry.
5. Learn about the grieving process. There are many resources available.
6. Don’t be afraid of reminding the parents about the child. They have never forgotten. Letting them know you remember is comforting.
7. Be liberal with touching a grieving parent. They need contact and gentle hugs.